Who'z Your Maddy?

Who'z Your Maddy?

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How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen — David Brooks

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Jan 23, 2026
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What I keep coming back to is how rarely misunderstanding grows out of cruelty. Most of the time, it begins with assumption. The moment I don’t actually know what someone is thinking or feeling, my mind rushes in to fill the gap. I don’t even notice I’m doing it at first. The story arrives fully formed, convincing, and almost always centered on me — my …

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